4 Apr 11

Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Herpes Tell All?

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Dear Sasha, I have herpes that I got from my very first long-term boyfriend. I’m now seeing someone new since we broke-up last year. How long should I wait to tell him – we have not had sex yet? Sincerely, Herpes Tell All Dear Gift That Keeps on Giving- I once had a friend who […]

17 Feb 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: I Kissed Him and Forgot His Name

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By Jillian Weingart He was holding my hand gently as we walked up to my front door. I turned to face him expecting to receive a hug or a simple good bye. Before I knew it, he thrust me up against the door and we were engaged in a make-out session so intense that it […]

16 Feb 11

A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… He Had Sex With My Friend

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By Dani Katz Infinitely better for them, I’d like to think. I’d been crushing on an Austrian Occultist with upward slanting kitty cat eyes and a veritable gallery’s worth of sacred geometry inked on his arms for months, to no avail. While we shared a heady, geeky passion for Tarot, Nirvana and sacred plant medicine, […]

15 Feb 11

Tuesday’s Topic: Like, Love or Dopamine

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Book Excerpt – Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel By Jennifer Kelton ‘What is love?’ Shakespeare mused.The Great bard was not the first to ask. I suspect our ancestors pondered this question a million years ago as they sat around their campfires of lay and watched the stars. —Helen Fisher,Why We Love IT WAS […]

4 Feb 11

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? — Stripper Heels

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By Dani Katz They’re soooooo obvious; whether paired with a tight Lycra mini skirt, a garter belt and stockings, or a rented French maid’s uniform, stripper heels are iconic fashion code for slut. Don’t get me wrong, slut, slutty and any other slut-borne derivation is fine by me, and definitely has its time and place, […]

4 Feb 11

Flashback Friday: Respect in a Booty Call (Circa 10-31-07)

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By Erik Cardona Lying beside her in post-coital exhaustion, a guy’s mind begins to run a thousand miles a minute. Wondering how to enact the next phase of his sexual game plan, he mentally scrolls through his relational rule book of do’s and don’ts. Glancing over at his partner he begins working through his checklist. […]

1 Feb 11

Tuesday’s Topic: Cheating — is it Ever Okay?

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By Kari DePhillips We all make mistakes, and cheating can be one of them. Cheating can ruin relationships, destroy trust and make you look like a first-class a-hole. If word gets out that you’re a cheater, you can develop an unsavory reputation that can be hard to shake. That said, is cheating ever okay? No, […]

31 Jan 11

Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Many Sex Partners?

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Dear Sasha, I’ve just started dating a new guy that I really like a lot. I’ve had sex with a lot of guys for my age (I’m 25), more than I can count — do I tell him? Sincerely, One too many to count. Dear Too Many- You know what are else too many to […]

29 Jan 11

Saturday’s Memoirs: Adventures in Bad Online Dates — Another Year, Another Dating Profile

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By JocelynWentland, Sex Researcher So with the advent of another year, how many people have un-retired their online mouse and returned to online dating or are making the big dive into online dating for the first time? I’m no mathemagician, but I’m sure many sites like Plenty of Fish or Lavalife see a new year’s […]

25 Jan 11

Tuesday’s Topic: The Top Six Reasons Women Have Sex

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By Kari DePhillips There are many motivating factors that drive women to have sex (besides the fact that it’s the 21st century and you’re allowed to if you want to, damnit). Here’s a list of the top six reasons women get freaky between the sheets: 1. Basic physical need. Every healthy human adult needs to […]

About Jennifer Kelton

Jennifer KeltonI did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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