Dear Sasha, I dread Valentine’s Day! Last year I had a huge fight with my boyfriend of 3 years the night of and we broke up for the last time of an on again and off again relationship. Honestly I feel like I’ve been traumatized about the day. Just the writing the word makes my […]

By Cougel I’ve had this conversation a lot lately, so I thought I’d commit it to paper (er, the web). What is wrong with the dating scene in New York? Is it me, or is true that (I quote friends),“Men in NY are retarded, or at best, weird?” I know men complain about the same […]

By Jack Elliot The number three. It’s essential to math in general, determining when there’s a crowd, counting down to go, ménage a trois, tricycles, and baseball…but dating too? “No!” you say, shocked as you read this. “Another dating rule? It can’t be!” Well, that’s what this week’s topic will hope to resolve. So, should […]

Dear Sasha, I met this girl recently online and after a month of seeing her pretty much every weekend and sleeping together, she still won’t introduce me to her friends, she also never talks about them, or her family, for that matter. Do you think that she’s hiding something from me, or just playing her […]

By Patrick Curry Somehow, someway, somewhere you meet her. Not just her, but Her. Then, you get to know her, and it’s great. Then you fall, really fall for her, and it’s fantastic. Your relationship takes off, all systems go, the months fly by and things couldn’t be better. Colors are brighter, foods tastier, and […]

By Kari DePhillips We all have at least one ex that we wish would just disappear off the face of the Earth. Unfortunately, magical disappearances rarely tend to happen in real life. In fact, after a bad break-up we are usually stuck with constant reminders of the abhorrent ex everywhere we look. This is especially […]

Dear Sasha, Last year my parents got divorced, it came as a huge shock, and no one in the family saw it coming. Since then I have not been able to date (I’m 22.) I get asked out pretty often — but just have no interest. Do you think that my parent’s divorce has made […]

How (Awesome) I (in No Way) Felt When He Blew Me Off for Another Girl By Dani Katz Blown off for another girl – younger, prettier, thinner – the reasons are irrelevant, it smarts just the same whether she’s slutty, stupid, stacked or successful. It’s tempting to compare – like, really tempting – and to […]

Dating Paranoia

By Jack Elliot So we’ve made it. It’s that time of the year again. The time of snowmen, Christmas lights, sledding, presents, hot toddies, blizzards, airport departures and arrivals, mother-in-laws, awkward sweaters, driving through a blizzard to pick up your mother-in-law and her awkward sweaters at the airport, and perhaps most importantly, mistletoe. Ah yes, […]