12 May 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: My Date Tells Me What to Do

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By Daniel Ponsky What is it inside of us human beings that stir our attraction for others? No easy question if you think about all of the different people you know and then think about the reasons why you like them. Is it on personal, social or business terms? Do they help make you money […]

2 Apr 11

WINNING! — Would You Date Like Charlie Sheen?

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31 Mar 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Arguing in Public

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By Rachel Spensatelli Anyone who’s ever been in a relationship knows it’s not always rainbows, unicorns and butterflies. Occasional quarrels and disagreements just come with the territory. Arguing is natural, and as long as it’s done constructively, it can be healthy. Aside from knowing how and when to argue, where to argue is important too. […]

29 Mar 11

Tuesday’s Topic: Disgusting Dating Habits

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By Kelly Seal Maybe you’re a single man who’s hot, successful, or some form of a great catch. However, you can’t seem to make it past the first date or two, and can’t understand why. Instead of assuming the problem is with your dates, maybe you should consider the possibility that it’s with you. Allow […]

7 Mar 11

Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Is Social Climbing a Dating Deal Breaker?

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Dear Sasha,

I’ve been seeing this woman for about three months now; she is great in most ways except she’s a huge social climber and will cancel plans at the last moment if she thinks it will advance her social status, both socially and in business. Is this a dating deal breaker? Sincerely,
Is social climbing a […]

29 Jan 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Hitting on the Bartender?

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By Jack Elliot Inside the bar you see the live band full of attractive musicians. You see the crowd dancing, enjoying themselves. You see couples throughout the bar, having drinks and relishing in each other’s company. You see the numerous singles throughout the bar talking, joking, trying to make something happen. You see the poor […]

11 Nov 10

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Making Out in Public

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By Jack Elliot PDA. It doesn’t look so bad when you read it- just three simple letters minding their own business, respectfully keeping their appendages to themselves, and not really doing anything to disturb you. But when these letters are taken off the page and are brought into reality, they can get ugly real fast, […]

10 Nov 10

Tuesday’s Topic: Global Dating Rituals

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By Kari DePhillips Across the globe, people young and old engage in the elaborate social ritual known as “dating.” However, what that means can vary from country to country. As a result, it’s important to arm yourself with as much knowledge as possible – especially if you’re into accents. For example: In Britain, men are […]

27 Oct 10

A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When…. He Doesn’t Call

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How it Makes Me Feel When He Doesn’t Call After Sex By Dani Katz It was purely carnal; we used each other’s bodies to get off and then discovered the chemistry wasn’t there, we didn’t fit quite right, or we loathed each other after we came. He didn’t call. Whew. I’m relieved to not have […]

About Jennifer Kelton

Jennifer KeltonI did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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  • Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: My Date Tells Me What to Do

    By Daniel Ponsky What is it inside of us human beings that stir our attraction for others? No easy question if you think about all of the different people you know and then think about the reasons why you like them. Is it on personal, social or business terms? Do they help make you money […]

  • WINNING! — Would You Date Like Charlie Sheen?

    Are you dripping with “Tiger blood?” “Scoreboard Doesn’t Lie “WINNING!” By taking this survey you will be entered into a drawing to WIN a new iPhone. Take survey to WIN!

  • Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Arguing in Public

    By Rachel Spensatelli Anyone who’s ever been in a relationship knows it’s not always rainbows, unicorns and butterflies. Occasional quarrels and disagreements just come with the territory. Arguing is natural, and as long as it’s done constructively, it can be healthy. Aside from knowing how and when to argue, where to argue is important too. […]

  • Tuesday’s Topic: Disgusting Dating Habits

    By Kelly Seal Maybe you’re a single man who’s hot, successful, or some form of a great catch. However, you can’t seem to make it past the first date or two, and can’t understand why. Instead of assuming the problem is with your dates, maybe you should consider the possibility that it’s with you. Allow […]