8 Mar 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel – Part 3

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Nature, Soul and Respect… As Gary and I sat smiling at the bar sipping cocktails, discussing life and soul connection, we were both in agreement that things in our modern society have changed. Where did respect go? Is the lack of respect connected with the loss of soul and the loss of connection with nature? […]

7 Mar 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel – Part 2

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Nature Soul and Respect… Looking out on the sea of humanity on the verge of turning forty, I had been in deep contemplation about “Leaky Soul Syndrome.” It’s a theory I have that as people lose touch with their spiritual side, holes develop in their souls allowing basic respect and consideration for others to drip […]

5 Mar 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel – Part 1

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Over the next few days I’m going to post the chapter from my book called… Nature, Soul and Respect “When we think of the psyche, if we think about it at all, as a cousin to the brain and therefore something essentially internal. But ancient psychologists taught that our own souls are inseparable from the […]

About Jennifer Kelton

Jennifer KeltonI did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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    Book Excerpt – Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel By Jennifer Kelton Oxytocin is a peptide of nine amino acids that was, until recently, thought only to induce labor, lactation and bonding between a mother and child. Now it is believed to be instrumental in attachment between romantic partners as well. It is secreted […]

  • Respect, Personal Space & Gayle King

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  • You Can Win… Tell Us Your Worst Bad Date Story

    Tell us your worst bad date story on the Badonlinedates.com Facebook fan page wall to win a signed copy of Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel. Contest runs from now September 1st, 2010 through November 1st, 2010.

  • There’s an App for That?

    BadOnlineDates.com Launches an iPhone App, Giving Online Daters the Virtual Wingman They Need. (I-Newswire) May 12, 2010 – Los Angeles, CA – May 12th 2010. BadOnlineDates.com introduces the BadOnlinedates iPhone App; your virtual wingman. And yes. There is an App for that! Even been on date that was so tragic, so awkward, and so criminally […]

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