3 Mar 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: She Won’t Get Off Her Cell Phone

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By Daniel Ponsky So let me get this straight. You finally nutted up and asked that sweet piece of fine Georgia peach out for drinks and she said yes. That little sex kitten your always going on about with the flowing locks of black ocean for hair who rocks a crooked naughty school-girl smile for […]

24 Feb 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: The Crazy Stalker Ex

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By Daniel Ponsky There comes a time in most everyone’s life when a relationship or two will come to an end. Most of the “composed” end of the dating pool will move on. They will call it quits, turn there head and walk down another path never looking back in regret. They are content with […]

17 Feb 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: I Kissed Him and Forgot His Name

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By Jillian Weingart He was holding my hand gently as we walked up to my front door. I turned to face him expecting to receive a hug or a simple good bye. Before I knew it, he thrust me up against the door and we were engaged in a make-out session so intense that it […]

10 Feb 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Valentine’s Day Do’s and Don’ts

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By Jack Elliot Valentines Day. It’s a subject that’s been brought up a lot at the bar over this past week, with many a patron sharing their thoughts and plans about what they’re planning to do for their date this coming Monday. And as a bartender dedicated to providing you valuable information about the male […]

3 Feb 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Unrequited Love

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By Jack Elliot It’s the subject of countless novels, the driving force behind countless masterpieces, it’s the inspiration behind ninety five percent of all pop music, it’s the reason behind John Cusack’s acting career, it’s why Harry met Sally, it’s a feeling that is part of the human condition, it’s the main subject at almost […]

20 Jan 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender — The Three Date Rule

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By Jack Elliot The number three. It’s essential to math in general, determining when there’s a crowd, counting down to go, ménage a trois, tricycles, and baseball…but dating too? “No!” you say, shocked as you read this. “Another dating rule? It can’t be!” Well, that’s what this week’s topic will hope to resolve. So, should […]

13 Jan 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender — First Date Sex

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By Jack Elliot There are a million ways and styles to date. For instance, you can date seriously, casually, casually serious, serially, seriously serially, and so on and so on. And on top of this, we have your picky dater, your once-in-a-blue moon dater, your every other night dater, your ditch him after 2 weeks […]

6 Jan 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender — Disastrous Drunken Daters

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By Jack Elliot With a new date comes pressure. You know, the pressure to be charming, humorous, engaging, and just generally attractive. Now, worrying about all this pressure can be too much for some people, for anyone really. And oftentimes, while observing dates from behind the bar, I’ll watch as daters slowly go from a […]

30 Dec 10

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: New Year — New Beginnings

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By Jack Elliot Five- Four-Three-Two-One…Happy New Year! Hello 2011! Finally, a brand new, fresh year. A year that will take us all to new places and put new people in our lives. And who knows, if all goes well, 2011 could be the year that brings that certain someone into your life. As a bartender, […]

15 Dec 10

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Mistletoe Etiquette

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By Jack Elliot So we’ve made it. It’s that time of the year again. The time of snowmen, Christmas lights, sledding, presents, hot toddies, blizzards, airport departures and arrivals, mother-in-laws, awkward sweaters, driving through a blizzard to pick up your mother-in-law and her awkward sweaters at the airport, and perhaps most importantly, mistletoe. Ah yes, […]

About Jennifer Kelton

Jennifer KeltonI did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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