Saturday’s Memoirs: Adventures in Bad Online Dates — The Pre-School Teacher/ Stripper
By DatingALemon A girl on OKCupid messaged me. Well, first she winked at me; she then sent a message saying “you and I can get into a lot of trouble together.” She was 25 and a pre-school teacher. I’ve always had a thing for teachers, so this looked promising, the only problem was that she [...]
Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: I Kissed Him and Forgot His Name
By Jillian Weingart He was holding my hand gently as we walked up to my front door. I turned to face him expecting to receive a hug or a simple good bye. Before I knew it, he thrust me up against the door and we were engaged in a make-out session so intense that it [...]
A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… He Had Sex With My Friend
By Dani Katz Infinitely better for them, I’d like to think. I’d been crushing on an Austrian Occultist with upward slanting kitty cat eyes and a veritable gallery’s worth of sacred geometry inked on his arms for months, to no avail. While we shared a heady, geeky passion for Tarot, Nirvana and sacred plant medicine, [...]
Tuesday’s Topic: Like, Love or Dopamine
Book Excerpt – Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel By Jennifer Kelton ‘What is love?’ Shakespeare mused.The Great bard was not the first to ask. I suspect our ancestors pondered this question a million years ago as they sat around their campfires of lay and watched the stars. —Helen Fisher,Why We Love IT WAS [...]
Saturday’s Memoirs: Adventures in Bad Online Dates — And I’m a Bad Date?
(Disclaimer the typos, language, and spelling mistakes in the letter below have been left intentionally, and in the original context from Brianne.) By Brianne Sloan This is a letter that was written to me after a very bad date a couple years ago and I recently found it in my saved mail dated May 2006! [...]
A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… I Don’t Have a Valentine’s Day Date
By Dani Katz Warning: Despite all appearances to the contrary, the following article contains no dating romance advice whatsoever, rather endeavors to inspire readers to make the most of their current circumstances as they are: lover, lovers, or empty celibate space. This concludes our no dating romance advice whatsoever disclaimer. As a rebel Aquarian who [...]
Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Calling After an Argument?
Dear Sasha, I got into a fight with my girlfriend and decided not to call her and completely ignored her for an entire week, then that turned into another fight – how long is too long to wait to call after having an argument? Sincerely, How long is too long?
Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Unrequited Love
By Jack Elliot It’s the subject of countless novels, the driving force behind countless masterpieces, it’s the inspiration behind ninety five percent of all pop music, it’s the reason behind John Cusack’s acting career, it’s why Harry met Sally, it’s a feeling that is part of the human condition, it’s the main subject at almost [...]
A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… I’m Rethinking Valentine’s Day
By Kelly Seal I was never a fan of Valentine’s Day. It didn’t feel like a “holiday” because it seemed too exclusive, meant only for those in relationships. I watched my co-workers and friends get flowers and candy, reminding myself it was just another day. Why should a lame Hallmark-inspired celebration bring more attention to [...]
Tuesday’s Topic: Cheating — is it Ever Okay?
By Kari DePhillips We all make mistakes, and cheating can be one of them. Cheating can ruin relationships, destroy trust and make you look like a first-class a-hole. If word gets out that you’re a cheater, you can develop an unsavory reputation that can be hard to shake. That said, is cheating ever okay? No, [...]
I did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”






