21 Jul 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 8 – Chapter 6

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See below for parts 1-7…
Now let’s get down to the real burning questions. How far should you go physically on the first date? Rule 15 warns that “No More than Casual Kissing on the First Date” is acceptable. I also wanted to know if “going further” has been a deal breaker or changed [...]

16 Jul 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 7 – Chapter 6

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So much has already been written and talked about The Rules, it’s an easy target. It’s been examined, quoted, praised, reviled and spoofed at every turn, but with good reason. A set of rules, in my opinion, sets you up for disaster. Once again, I turned to the [...]

17 Jun 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 6 – Chapter 6

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See below for parts 1-5…
Date Like a Man by Myreah Moore and Jodie Gould contained some good information. I appreciated the fact it went straight to the point, especially in the chapter, “How to Have Sex Like a Man: Sex Tips from Men That You Can’t Live/Date Without,” where they go from the difference between [...]

27 May 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 5 – Chapter 6

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A good way to get beyond the advice gurus: begin with a healthy belief in yourself. It is important to always follow your heart and gut, and much more important to do what feels right to you than to do what the media, or other people tell you to do. [...]

15 May 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 4 – Chapter 6

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See below for part 1-3…
First I gave them a sample from Date Like a Man:
Step #1: Date Him. Do you like the guy? Do you think that you have a lot in common? Go out with him two or three times to see if you click. Let him woo you.
Step #2: Disappear. Make yourself totally [...]

1 May 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 3 – Chapter 6

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See below for part 1 & 2…
Date Like a Man by Myreah Moore and Jodie Gould contained some good information. I appreciated the fact it went straight to the point, especially in the chapter, “How to Have Sex Like a Man: Sex Tips from Men That You Can’t Live/Date Without,” where they go from the [...]

8 Mar 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel – Part 3

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Nature, Soul and Respect…
As Gary and I sat smiling at the bar sipping cocktails, discussing life and soul connection, we were both in agreement that things in our modern society have changed. Where did respect go? Is the lack of respect connected with the loss of soul and the loss of connection with [...]

7 Mar 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel – Part 2

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Nature Soul and Respect…
Looking out on the sea of humanity on the verge of turning forty, I had been in deep contemplation about “Leaky Soul Syndrome.” It’s a theory I have that as people lose touch with their spiritual side, holes develop in their souls allowing basic respect and consideration for others to drip [...]

5 Mar 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel – Part 1

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Over the next few days I’m going to post the chapter from my book called…
Nature, Soul and Respect
“When we think of the psyche, if we think about it at all, as a cousin to the brain and therefore something essentially internal. But ancient psychologists taught that our own souls are inseparable from the world’s soul, [...]

About Jennifer Kelton

I did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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