Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? – In Honor of Earth Day: Flower Power
By Alison Agosti Living in southern California, sometimes it’s hard to tell that the seasons have changed but apparently it’s spring. The snow (whatever that is) has begun its retreat, the sun has returned and flowers are in bloom. It’s a time where we shed out warm, bulky layers for a lighter, frillier option. Spring [...]
Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Burping Loudly in Public
By Daniel Ponsky There are very few things that can absolutely change a moment in your life the second they happen. A baby’s cry can stir up the most dormant of emotions in us that might range from a gentle concern of “Oh, poor baby, I hope he’s ok?” to “Jesus, somebody shut that frickin [...]
Date Song Pick of the Week: U2 – All I Want Is You
U2 – All I Want Is You
Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Her Cooking Sucks?
Dear Sasha, I have just started seeing a woman that I really like. One huge problem she always asks me over to cook dinner aka eat a home cooked meal and she is a REALLY bad cook! I don’t want to be rude –but her cooking is for the dogs! Sincerely, Her cooking is for [...]
Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: He Asked Me Out Then Expected Me to Pay the Tab
By Daniel Ponsky Let’s put it this way, what did you really have to do Friday night after work? You busted your booty for an entire week faking big smiles and super fun attitude to appease your boss’s ego. You took all their lip with a grain of salt and halfway through the weeks festival [...]
A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… I’m Having Sex for the Sake of Sex
By Jennifer Kelton Let’s get straight down to the hard and fast (yes, the sexual innuendo is intended) bottom line—none of us would be here if not for sex and it’s genetic, primal, and uncontrollable driving force. Sex is the motivation and behind many great movies, raunchy porn, music, and art. Sex has created multi-billion-dollar [...]
Date Song Pick of the Week: Percy Sledge – When a Man Loves a Woman
Percy Sledge – When a Man Loves a Woman
Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Herpes Tell All?
Dear Sasha, I have herpes that I got from my very first long-term boyfriend. I’m now seeing someone new since we broke-up last year. How long should I wait to tell him – we have not had sex yet? Sincerely, Herpes Tell All Dear Gift That Keeps on Giving- I once had a friend who [...]
Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Arguing in Public
By Rachel Spensatelli Anyone who’s ever been in a relationship knows it’s not always rainbows, unicorns and butterflies. Occasional quarrels and disagreements just come with the territory. Arguing is natural, and as long as it’s done constructively, it can be healthy. Aside from knowing how and when to argue, where to argue is important too. [...]
A Man’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… I’m Going Through a Divorce
By J.R. Reed aka Sexandthesingledad Getting divorced sucks. Especially when you have kids. My parents were married 46 years when my dad died and being married and sticking it out is what I knew. I married someone who was eventually diagnosed as bi-polar. She stopped taking her medicine when our daughter was five and there [...]
I did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”






