Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 10 – Chapter 6
See below for parts 1-9… In my studies, I did come across a few books that spoke to me in my own language: The Real Rules: How to Find the Right Man for the Real You by Barbara De Angelis, Ph.D., If the Buddha Dated, by Charlotte Cassel, Ph.D., and Care of the Soul, by [...]
Date Song Pick of the Week: John Lee Hooker & Bonnie Raitt – I’m in the Mood
John Lee Hooker & Bonnie Raitt – I’m in the Mood
Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 8 – Chapter 6
See below for parts 1-7… Now let’s get down to the real burning questions. How far should you go physically on the first date? Rule 15 warns that “No More than Casual Kissing on the First Date” is acceptable. I also wanted to know if “going further” has been a deal breaker or changed the [...]
Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 7 – Chapter 6
See below for parts 1-6… So much has already been written and talked about The Rules, it’s an easy target. It’s been examined, quoted, praised, reviled and spoofed at every turn, but with good reason. A set of rules, in my opinion, sets you up for disaster. Once again, I turned to the men to [...]
Date Song Pick of the Week: Leonard Cohen – Dance Me to the End of Love
Leonard Cohen – Dance Me to the End of Love
Date Song Pick of the Week: Curtis Mayfield – It’s All Right
Curtis Mayfield – It’s All Right
Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 5 – Chapter 6
See below for part 1-4… A good way to get beyond the advice gurus: begin with a healthy belief in yourself. It is important to always follow your heart and gut, and much more important to do what feels right to you than to do what the media, or other people tell you to do. [...]
Date Song Pick of the Week: Shaggy ft. Rik Rok – Angel – Loop Live 2008
Shaggy ft. Rik Rok-Angel – Loop Live 2008
I did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”






