26 Oct 10

Tuesday’s Topic: Double Dating Dynamics

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Double Dating Dynamics By Kari DePhillips You’ve heard or experienced blind date horror stories. You know, the time when you walked into the restaurant and the girl you were meeting had a thicker mustache than you. Or, the time when the new guy you had plans with decided to invite his mother. There was also [...]

21 Oct 10

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: He’s Asking Me Out – But Invading My Personal Space

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By Jack Elliot It’s your safe little bubble against the outside world. It’s your haven from strangers around you. It’s your zone. It’s your sanctuary. It’s personal space. But all too often, I’ll witness as these fragile personal space bubbles, and most often those belonging to women, are popped and trampled on by eager, overbearing [...]

19 Oct 10

Tuesday’s Topic: What Happened to Wooing?

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By Kari DePhillips What happened to wooing? Two words: “Jersey Shore.” On a recent episode, the Situation was all a flutter (as “a flutter” as he can be) over a girl he just met in a Miami nightclub. As a way of sharing personal information the girl said, “I’m from Canada.” To which the Situation [...]

18 Oct 10

Sasha Speaks — Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions

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Sasha Speaks 10.18.10 “Dear Sasha I’ve been dating this girl for the past few months. Things are pretty serious, we’ve slept together and say ‘I love you,’ and it’s all great, except that I used to go out with her friend and that makes things a little tense and weird from time to time. How [...]

7 Oct 10

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Guys – What Your Button Style Says About Your Dating Style

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By Jack Elliot It’s the weekend! Finally, after the long sludge and trudge of the busy workweek, it’s time to go out- time to paint the town red. And now you’re getting dressed- your perfect jeans are on, your dress shirt has been picked out, and everything is ready for the night ahead…right? Unfortunately, no. [...]

4 Oct 10

Respect, Personal Space & Gayle King

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By Jennifer Kelton My close encounter with Gayle King is an in-flight tale. Four years ago, I wrote a book on dating and mating titled: Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel. Despite the blunt title, the book is ultimately a non-fiction story about: life, love, human nature and, most important, respect. The man who [...]

30 Sep 10

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: The Drunk Guy Response – Drunk Dialing and Too Much Cologne

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By Jack Elliot They are everywhere. They come in hordes reeking of too much cologne. They plague the air with bad breath and conversation. Their egos barely fit through wide and spacious doorways. They repeatedly offer to buy you drinks after you say no. They try to dance with you after you say no. They [...]

16 Sep 10

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender – Cleavage Calling?

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Does a skimpy dress attract more men? By Jack Elliot “What should I wear?” she thinks hours before the big night out as she desperately rifles through her dresser, her roommates dresser, her closet, even the dryer in search for that elusive, perfect, classically sexy outfit- not too conservative, not too trashy, not too flashy, [...]

15 Sep 10

Two Women, Two Cities, One Question — Question #2 Hair! Hair! Long Flowing Hair?

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By Jennifer Kelton and By Jessica Downey In walks Jennifer Kelton and Jessica Downey two modern day Lois Lane’s who are unabashedly hitting the pavement in their bustling hometowns of Los Angeles and Chicago. Armed with sharpened pencils and crisp white lined note pads, asking a total of 50 unsuspecting strangers of all ages, genders [...]

12 Sep 10

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? — Wearing Sweatpants on a Date?

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nymag.com Manhattan Dude Who Refuses to Date Sweatpants-Wearers Inspires Potential Girlfriend to Write to Advice Columnist The Washington Post’s Carolyn Hax received this letter from a troubled Manhattanite: So I’ve been casually dating this guy from work. There’s so much chemistry between us, he’s funny and smart, and I think I’m starting to fall for [...]

About Jennifer Kelton

I did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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  • Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Arguing in Public

    By Rachel Spensatelli Anyone who’s ever been in a relationship knows it’s not always rainbows, unicorns and butterflies. Occasional quarrels and disagreements just come with the territory. Arguing is natural, and as long as it’s done constructively, it can be healthy. Aside from knowing how and when to argue, where to argue is important too. [...]

  • Tuesday’s Topic: Disgusting Dating Habits

    By Kelly Seal Maybe you’re a single man who’s hot, successful, or some form of a great catch. However, you can’t seem to make it past the first date or two, and can’t understand why. Instead of assuming the problem is with your dates, maybe you should consider the possibility that it’s with you. Allow [...]