27 Sep 10

Date Song Pick of the Week: Bad Company – Can’t Get Enough

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Bad Company – Can’t Get Enough

15 Sep 10

Two Women, Two Cities, One Question — Question #2 Hair! Hair! Long Flowing Hair?

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By Jennifer Kelton and By Jessica Downey In walks Jennifer Kelton and Jessica Downey two modern day Lois Lane’s who are unabashedly hitting the pavement in their bustling hometowns of Los Angeles and Chicago. Armed with sharpened pencils and crisp white lined note pads, asking a total of 50 unsuspecting strangers of all ages, genders […]

13 Sep 10

Date Song Pick of the Week: Stevie Ray Vaughan – Pride and Joy (Acoustic)

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Stevie Ray Vaughan – Pride and Joy (Acoustic)

9 Sep 10

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender – Overheard: Bad Pickup Lines

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By Jack Elliot You know the story. A girl walks into a bar. A guy walks in after her. Guy sits next to girl. Guy says to girl…(insert clever punch line here). As a bartender, I have had countless chances to watch this classic and age old scenario play out a number of times with […]

22 Aug 10

Sunday Funnies: My New Old Boyfriend

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My New Old Boyfriend – Chick Comedy

20 Aug 10

Friday’s Do or Don’t: Manzilians — Brazilians for Guys?

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Why I Got the ‘Manzilian’ Wax Brazilians for guys? Increasingly popular, but not for the faint of heart Newser (Newser) – Jed Lipinksi didn’t realize it at first, but it would prove to be impossible for him to write a story about male waxing without getting waxed himself. After steadfastly declining several offers, Lipinski found […]

11 Aug 10

He Doesn’t Care

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By Jennifer Kelton That’s why he didn’t call. One week after avoiding two of my favorite local happy hour spots, I’m sitting at one of them, drinking a $4 happy hour draught, surrounded by dark mahogany. It’s the local Irish Pub. I’m on a first-name basis with the bartenders, here. I’m sitting on my bar […]

10 Aug 10

Tuesday’s Topic: Do Women Prefer Men in Red?

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Women prefer men in red, study shows By the CNN Wire Staff CNN) — Men on the prowl for a date may want to add red to their wardrobe. A new multicultural study shows red is no longer just a sexy color for women. Men in red are considered just as appealing. Women in China, […]

9 Aug 10

Two Women, Two Cities, One Question – To Use or Not to Use?

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By Jennifer Kelton and By Jessica Downey In walks Jennifer Kelton and Jessica Downey two modern day Lois Lane’s who are unabashedly hitting the pavement in their bustling hometowns of Los Angeles and Chicago. Armed with sharpened pencils and crisp white lined note pads, asking a total of 50 unsuspecting strangers of all ages, genders […]

About Jennifer Kelton

Jennifer KeltonI did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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  • Tuesday’s Topic: Like, Love or Dopamine

    Book Excerpt – Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel By Jennifer Kelton ‘What is love?’ Shakespeare mused.The Great bard was not the first to ask. I suspect our ancestors pondered this question a million years ago as they sat around their campfires of lay and watched the stars. —Helen Fisher,Why We Love IT WAS […]

  • Dating in Disguise – Game Show ep.1

    Dating in Disguise – Game Show ep.1 The Dating in Disguise game show – Because sometimes love is just a matter of luck! Each constant has 3 chances for love along with a cash or zonker prize twist.

  • A Man’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… I’ve Been Dumped for Another Man

    By Patrick Curry Somehow, someway, somewhere you meet her. Not just her, but Her. Then, you get to know her, and it’s great. Then you fall, really fall for her, and it’s fantastic. Your relationship takes off, all systems go, the months fly by and things couldn’t be better. Colors are brighter, foods tastier, and […]

  • Tuesday’s Topic: Global Dating Rituals

    By Kari DePhillips Across the globe, people young and old engage in the elaborate social ritual known as “dating.” However, what that means can vary from country to country. As a result, it’s important to arm yourself with as much knowledge as possible – especially if you’re into accents. For example: In Britain, men are […]

  • Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions – In Love But Sexless?

    Sasha Speaks 11.8.10 Dear Sasha, I’ve been dating this guy who could be “the one,” the only thing is he has NO sex drive at all! ZIPPO — It’s been months since the last time we even kissed. What do you think I should do? Sincerely, In love but sexless Dear Sexless, There’s a big […]