3 Nov 09

Room #104 and Neighbor Damon – Part 2

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Just because a man buys you drinks does that entitle him to more? August and September We were having an engaging conversation, and I was learning about the world of paintball. After about 30 minutes, a man sat on the other side of me. Everyone at the bar was elbow to elbow. My new neighbor, […]

15 Oct 09

Bad Breath at the Bar

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Last night I was out for happy hour at a swanky and trendy bar where I met a few guys… However, and one of them had terribly bad breath, not a good first impression I felt like I needed to be wearing a mask. OK, there are a number of reasons for halitosis, bad oral […]

6 Oct 09

From Time.com: Why Women Have Sex

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Why Women Have Sex By Alyssa Fetini While figuring out what women want has stumped men for centuries, understanding how they think about sex may have just gotten easier. Cindy Meston and David Buss, psychologists at the University of Texas, interviewed over 1,000 women around the world for their book Why Women Have Sex and […]

1 Oct 09

College Bans Sex When Roommate is Around

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I’ve had some pretty noisy roommates as well… Interesting policy/ban the college has put into effect! But in the end it really does come down to basic respect… Boston-area college bans sex with roommate around By RUSSELL CONTRERAS (AP) BOSTON — Sex in a Tufts University dorm is fine. Sex in a Tufts dorm with […]

21 Jul 09

Don’t Use My Sweater Like a Towel: Part 8 – Chapter 6

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See below for parts 1-7… Now let’s get down to the real burning questions. How far should you go physically on the first date? Rule 15 warns that “No More than Casual Kissing on the First Date” is acceptable. I also wanted to know if “going further” has been a deal breaker or changed the […]

20 Feb 09

Dating, STD’s and One Night Stands

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Last week I went snowboarding and I met a super cute sexy guy while hanging out at the hotel bar, there was for sure some sexual chemistry going on, however I was there in the mountains on a mission purely to ride and decompress from what had been an extremely stressful past four weeks which […]

1 Feb 09

How to Move in for the First Kiss -Tips on Kissing for Men

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Recently I sent out an email asking a few of my experienced and trusted friends for feedback on a kissing advice tip list — a kissing 101 tip sheet of sorts to help shed some light on the the age old question for men as to how to… “Move in for the first kiss.” And […]

About Jennifer Kelton

Jennifer KeltonI did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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