A Man’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… I’m Going Through a Divorce
By J.R. Reed aka Sexandthesingledad Getting divorced sucks. Especially when you have kids. My parents were married 46 years when my dad died and being married and sticking it out is what I knew. I married someone who was eventually diagnosed as bi-polar. She stopped taking her medicine when our daughter was five and there [...]
Tuesday’s Topic: Disgusting Dating Habits
By Kelly Seal Maybe you’re a single man who’s hot, successful, or some form of a great catch. However, you can’t seem to make it past the first date or two, and can’t understand why. Instead of assuming the problem is with your dates, maybe you should consider the possibility that it’s with you. Allow [...]
Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Her Handbag?
Dear Sasha, The woman I’m dating always puts her purse on the restaurant and bar top when we are out, even when I ask her not to because it grosses me out and I would hope that she would stop just as a matter of respect to me. Do you think it’s a sign of [...]
Date Song Pick of the Week: Paul McCartney & Wings – Maybe I’m Amazed
Paul McCartney & Wings – Maybe I’m Amazed
Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Dating a Picky Eater
By Daniel Ponsky See, I’m wired a little different than most people on this planet. I live life simple and try to walk my path with a sense of reserved moderation. I balance myself with a strong belief that too much of anything always ends up being bad for you in the end, if your [...]
Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Functional Drunk?
Dear Sasha, I think the woman I’m dating is a functional drunk! What are the tell tale signs? Sincerely, Functioning Drunk Dear Hungover Lover- Functioning alcoholics battle substance abuse issues just as badly as someone trapped in crack or heroin addiction, they’re just better at covering it up, and that’s the scary part. The first [...]
Date Song Pick of the Week: The Rolling Stones – Honky Tonk Woman (Hyde Park ’69)
The Rolling Stones – Honky Tonk Woman (Hyde Park ’69)
Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? — Man-Purse aka Murse
By Dani Katz Dude, if you wanna carry a bag, carry a bag. What’s the big fucking deal? Oh, right. You’re still hung up on old school gender roles, and you think that if you carry a purse, it means you’re a pussy or a homo. ‘Cause the decision to load your precious things into [...]
Date Song Pick of the Week: The Airborne Toxic Event – Sometime Around Midnight
The Airborne Toxic Event – Sometime Around Midnight
Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? – Pierced Nipples and Belly Buttons
By Danielle Turchiano I may be about to date myself here but when I was in junior high, pierced belly buttons were all the rage. This was the mid to late 1990s, and the few friends of mine who had actually done the deed and gotten their midriff shot through with a little dangly heart [...]
I did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”







