29 Apr 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Passing Out During Sex

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By Daniel Ponsky What makes a great lover great? Is it passionate unpredictability between the sheets? Is it the way they kiss, or smell or tease your uninhibited senses into an intoxicating carousel of sexual prowess? Whatever it is that hits the pleasure button within you, one thing is for sure. For that button to […]

26 Apr 11

Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — My Sexual Appetite?

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Dear Sasha, I think that I’m a sex addict. I don’t seem to be able to stay loyal in a relationship. Every woman I have ever dated I have cheated on multiple times, and I constantly think about sex. The woman I’m currently dating could be someone that I would like to build a life […]

18 Apr 11

Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Her Cooking Sucks?

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Dear Sasha, I have just started seeing a woman that I really like. One huge problem she always asks me over to cook dinner aka eat a home cooked meal and she is a REALLY bad cook! I don’t want to be rude –but her cooking is for the dogs! Sincerely, Her cooking is for […]

7 Apr 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: He Asked Me Out Then Expected Me to Pay the Tab

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By Daniel Ponsky Let’s put it this way, what did you really have to do Friday night after work? You busted your booty for an entire week faking big smiles and super fun attitude to appease your boss’s ego. You took all their lip with a grain of salt and halfway through the weeks festival […]

6 Apr 11

A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… I’m Having Sex for the Sake of Sex

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By Jennifer Kelton Let’s get straight down to the hard and fast (yes, the sexual innuendo is intended) bottom line—none of us would be here if not for sex and it’s genetic, primal, and uncontrollable driving force. Sex is the motivation and behind many great movies, raunchy porn, music, and art. Sex has created multi-billion-dollar […]

4 Apr 11

Date Song Pick of the Week: Percy Sledge – When a Man Loves a Woman

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Percy Sledge – When a Man Loves a Woman

4 Apr 11

Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Herpes Tell All?

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Dear Sasha, I have herpes that I got from my very first long-term boyfriend. I’m now seeing someone new since we broke-up last year. How long should I wait to tell him – we have not had sex yet? Sincerely, Herpes Tell All Dear Gift That Keeps on Giving- I once had a friend who […]

31 Mar 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Arguing in Public

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By Rachel Spensatelli Anyone who’s ever been in a relationship knows it’s not always rainbows, unicorns and butterflies. Occasional quarrels and disagreements just come with the territory. Arguing is natural, and as long as it’s done constructively, it can be healthy. Aside from knowing how and when to argue, where to argue is important too. […]

About Jennifer Kelton

Jennifer KeltonI did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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