31 Mar 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Arguing in Public

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By Rachel Spensatelli Anyone who’s ever been in a relationship knows it’s not always rainbows, unicorns and butterflies. Occasional quarrels and disagreements just come with the territory. Arguing is natural, and as long as it’s done constructively, it can be healthy. Aside from knowing how and when to argue, where to argue is important too. […]

30 Mar 11

A Man’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… I’m Going Through a Divorce

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By J.R. Reed aka Sexandthesingledad Getting divorced sucks. Especially when you have kids. My parents were married 46 years when my dad died and being married and sticking it out is what I knew. I married someone who was eventually diagnosed as bi-polar. She stopped taking her medicine when our daughter was five and there […]

29 Mar 11

Tuesday’s Topic: Disgusting Dating Habits

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By Kelly Seal Maybe you’re a single man who’s hot, successful, or some form of a great catch. However, you can’t seem to make it past the first date or two, and can’t understand why. Instead of assuming the problem is with your dates, maybe you should consider the possibility that it’s with you. Allow […]

28 Mar 11

Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Her Handbag?

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Dear Sasha, The woman I’m dating always puts her purse on the restaurant and bar top when we are out, even when I ask her not to because it grosses me out and I would hope that she would stop just as a matter of respect to me. Do you think it’s a sign of […]

28 Mar 11

Date Song Pick of the Week: Paul McCartney & Wings – Maybe I’m Amazed

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Paul McCartney & Wings – Maybe I’m Amazed

25 Mar 11

Friday’s Fashion Dating Do or Don’t? — Plaid Pants and Not on the Golf Course

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By Alison Agosti Ah, golf. It’s the sport of gentlemen and ridiculous fashion. They have everything from mismatched prints to goofy pom-poms. Despite the inherent nerdiness of golf fashion, there is something charming and chic about it. There are people that pull it off perfectly, like Tiger Woods or Adam Scott. And in general, if […]

24 Mar 11

Thursday’s Thoughts From a Bartender: Dating a Picky Eater

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By Daniel Ponsky See, I’m wired a little different than most people on this planet. I live life simple and try to walk my path with a sense of reserved moderation. I balance myself with a strong belief that too much of anything always ends up being bad for you in the end, if your […]

23 Mar 11

A Woman’s POV: How it Makes Me Feel When… He Sent Me an Angry Text

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By Jessica Downey – Not What I Ordered I am a big fan of texting. Actually, I consider it a gift to the multi-tasker. If you are running late you can send a quick text. If you are in the middle of watching a show and see a funny commercial you can send a text. […]

21 Mar 11

Sasha Speaks: Answering Your Most Private Dating Questions — Functional Drunk?

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Dear Sasha, 

I think the woman I’m dating is a functional drunk! What are the tell tale signs? Sincerely, Functioning Drunk Dear Hungover Lover- Functioning alcoholics battle substance abuse issues just as badly as someone trapped in crack or heroin addiction, they’re just better at covering it up, and that’s the scary part. The first […]

21 Mar 11

Date Song Pick of the Week: The Rolling Stones – Honky Tonk Woman (Hyde Park ’69)

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The Rolling Stones – Honky Tonk Woman (Hyde Park ’69)

About Jennifer Kelton

Jennifer KeltonI did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

All of this has happened in a slow burn and here I am. The good, the bad, the mistakes, way too many tears shed to count, lots of wine and oh my goodness a huge learning curve that leaves me much of the time saying, “I’m sorry but this is all new to me.”
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