1 Feb 09

How to Move in for the First Kiss -Tips on Kissing for Men

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Recently I sent out an email asking a few of my experienced and trusted friends for feedback on a kissing advice tip list — a kissing 101 tip sheet of sorts to help shed some light on the the age old question for men as to how to…

“Move in for the first kiss.”

And here is what they had to say.

1. What a great question! I feel like by the time a man has the option to kiss me,
it should be obvious that I’m up for it. If I’ve accepted alone time with him,
allowed the activity to meander (rather than made an excuse to end things
early), let him hug and touch me, touched him and leaned in while we were
talking, walked with hands held or arms around each other, etc.– the barriers
are already down, and I am ready to be kissed. I am a modern woman, and I will
take a lot of initiative with a man, but as of yet I have never moved in for the
first kiss. This might be the remnants of my female socialization from previous
eras, but it’s definitely also that the kiss is going to tell me a lot– like if
he’s going to get any further than that. My advice? If the signs are there that
she’s open to it, lean in and go for it. Then pull back and let the second kiss
come in its own time.

- L**** :)

2.Don’t be shy.
Wipe the food off your mouth.
Floss and brush!

– M*** :-)

3. I guess I’m old fashioned, but I’ve always just leaned in close and asked. “can I kiss you”?

– P*****

I think all three of my friends kissing advice nailed it on the nose or would that be on the lips?

Thanks for the fantastic advice guys!


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