30 Jan 09

How to Make A First Impression With A Beautiful Woman

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I absolutely love the guys over at BeBetterGuys.com also Lee Coles @ Pulljoy.

This is great dating dating advice!

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Written by Lee Coles | Pulljoy (c)

Theoretically, you’ve only got a minute or so to make a first impression on a woman. So how do you impress a hot babe, enough to either hook up later, or leave her wanting more than your digits? Here’s what’s up.

Stay loose
Above all that might happen, and is happening, you’re having a good time, loving life, and she just happens to be there. You’re only chatting her up because of location (which is why you’re not asking much about work or school, and going with the deeper topics). She’ll sense your relaxation, your sexiness, and a mysterious interest that’s hard to pin down, and she’ll open up. Keep the body language casual and comfy, and be playful.

Demonstrate social capital
If you’re in familiar territory, or with friends, it should be clear to her you’re well-regarded. Your best bets are places where you’re known, and if you’re out of town, pop into the same hotel lounge or eateries your entire stay. Staff or regulars will speak to you, and establish a pleasing rapport. When asked personal questions, talk less about career and girlfriends, and more about people you helped move, find a job, get acclimated to a city, or get through a rough patch. A good transition into such a story is, ‘That reminds me of when…’.

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I did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”

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