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YES! He actually did do that and I drove home with it stuck on the front of my sweater - without knowing!
In Don't Use My Sweater Like a Towel I present not only three decades of dating experience but also the results of a full year of research, my own personal experiences and a collection of science and surveys to help you realize the "rule" you should be listening to is following your heart while trusting your feelings and instincts.
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I realized as the woman behind BadOnlineDates.com that I was always finding ways to slip in "non-dating" content on the Bad Online Dates blog.
This being said NerdGirlsaGoGo.com gives me a daily place to post, write and talk about a mis-mosh of all the fantastic, interesting and humorous things that I want to share it with the world!
Date Song Pick of the Week: James Brown & Joss Stone – It’s a Man’s Man’s Man’s World
James Brown & Joss Stone – It’s a Man’s Man’s Man’s World
Room #104 and Neighbor Damon – Part 7
Room #104 and Neighbor Damon – Part 7
His persistence makes me uncomfortable, but no matter how curt or distant I am, he never goes away. In a strange twist of fate, as I was writing his part of the book, I saw him standing in front of the gym I go to. He had told me he was a member there, but I had never seen him at the club in the past. With a thumping heart and held breath, I put my head in my gym bag and walked right by unnoticed – dodged that bullet. I hope to never see him again.
My evenings with Moldy Shower Curtain Jesus, Mr. Cheats on His Girlfriend Room #104, and Cologne-Reeking Stalker Neighbor Damon really gave me pause. What is going on out here in the dating world?
I said to one of my girlfriends over dinner, “I feel like I’m doing a science project.” It was as if a semi-truck had just run over me and I lived to tell the story. Dating rituals are compelling and incredibly riveting acts of human behavior. In just a matter of days, I’d gone from being in my own world of work and counseling, to debauchery with Room# 104, to revulsion with a Neighbor Damon. Jesus started it all just months before. I was onto something.
I have always been intensely interested in humanity and human behavior. I’ve read many, many books on the subject, and there doesn’t seem to be any really honest information for women, or men, about the dating world. There are few works that address making good decisions, share real-life stories – the kind you would never tell at the family Thanksgiving table, but can touch a place deep within you and resonate.
I live by the words, “as long as you are honest, organized and on time you will be fine,” and I am determined to operate from a place of compassion and honesty. I feel very strongly that by being honest we have the potential to open up new and important dialogue. So from that point on, I made my dating life a “science project” and as with any hypothesis, you sometimes get unexpected results.
End of chapter… More chapters to come.
Date Song Pick of the Week: Smokey Robinson and The Miracles – You Really Got a Hold On Me
Smokey Robinson and The Miracles – You Really Got a Hold On Me
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People Grow: Box A or Box B?
A few days ago I was driving down the street and I saw this graffiti in the picture above.
I wondered about the person wrote it and what exactly they were saying?
A. “People Grow.” In that: “We as people grow.”
or
B. “People Grow.” In that we as people: “Need to grow.”
???…
Later that night, I was out with friends and over cocktails I told them about seeing this earlier in day, as we all talked about life and how we handle life change and adversity.
One of my friends mom had just recently passed away, needless to say it has been extremely hard on her. I mentioned to her that in life we get to make the choice to “grow or to put our heads into the sand…”
Mentioning that we have choices… as to which box we are going to check:
Box A - “We grow as people.” Or Box B - “We are told to grow and or don’t grow.”
…Referring back to the graffiti that I had seen earlier in the day.
She picks Box A. So do I!
P.S. As I was taking this picture a man was yelling at me for where I had parked my car… Maybe he picks Box B?
Room #104 and Neighbor Damon – Part 6
Room #104 and Neighbor Damon – Part 6
Just because a man buys you drinks does that entitle him to more?
August and September
One evening a few weeks later, I met a friend for dinner in Hollywood, and it just so happened that Damon’s company was having an event at a nearby club. He called me up and invited me to come, but I declined. “Well, do you think you could give me a ride home?” He went on to explain that his company had picked him up in a limo and he didn’t have his car. I didn’t think it was a big deal – the club was 10 minutes from the restaurant, and we live just a few blocks from one another in Venice, so I agreed. It seemed harmless.
I picked him up from the party, and as we got to the intersection of La Brea and Venice, about halfway home, he realized he left his keys at the club.
“What do you want to do?” I asked. I was frustrated, tired and just wanted to be home.
“I’ll call and have one of the workers from my office drive the van over and bring my keys. I know exactly where they are.”
Exasperated, I pull into the gas station under a lamppost. I was tired and wanted to be home and I was in no mood to be with him. We were there for only a couple of minutes when a police car pulled in. Since I’d been drinking at dinner, I moved the car to another section of the gas station lot. I didn’t want our loitering to draw any undue attention.
He got freaked out and shouted, “Why did you do that?”
“Well I’ve been drinking, the police are sitting right there, and I think its weird that we’re just sitting here in the car at the gas station. I mean it’s LA and crazy stuff goes on here – it looks conspicuous.”
We had a huge argument, which was par for the course. Everything with him was an argument – from buying me drinks to going on a date with him. I’m not an argumentative person, and I found it very manipulative of him. I was spending time with this man I didn’t even like, just to avoid an argument.
He continues to e-mail me and call a few times a month. I do not return his calls and am very short in e-mails with him. I respond once for every five or six emails I receive. A typical exchange goes something like this:
From: notDamonsemail@whatever.com 7:40 PM
Hi…
Damon
From: notDamonsemail@whatever.com 8:44 PM
Hey,
How’s it going?
From: notDamonsemail@whatever.com 8:48 PM
Just working…and you?
Moved to Venice
Damon
From: notDamonsemail@whatever.com 8:57 PM
Wanna meet for a drink at Za Zen?
Damon (phone number)
From: me@me.com 8:59 PM
I will be out of town till May 1.
From: notDamonsemail@whatever.com 9:00 PM
Where u going?
-D
From: notDamonsemail@whatever.com 9:13 PM
Guess not, huh.
-D
To be continued…
Date Song Pick of the Week: The Beatles – I Saw Her Standing There (1964)
The Beatles – I Saw Her Standing There (1964)
Bad Date TV: Bad Date Ben – SEX Not Apologies!
Badonlinedates.com presents Bad Date TV Bad Date Ben on a second date looking for a hook-up with “Soccer Mom”.
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Bad Date TV Webisodes, an Organic Supportive Community, User Generated Content, iPhone App, and Human Connections Turns Bad Dates into Good Dates.
LOS ANGELES, Feb. 1 /PRNewswire/ — Ever had a bad date? You’re not alone. Incalculable amounts of people find themselves disappointed by their dating experiences and where do they turn – the Internet. Launching in public beta, BadOnlineDates.com is a vanguard social networking site that combines community and new technology with online dating. On BadOnlineDates.com, people can share their bad date experiences and connect with others that have similar values, turning negative experiences into positive ones. And on the plus side, the organic community content is playful and funny.
With 90 million single adults and 20 million monthly unique visitors to U.S. dating sites it’s clear that searching for some kind of romantic connection is a priority, regardless of socioeconomics, age, gender, sexual orientation and or ethnic backgrounds. However, numerous people may find that the online experience is painful and isolating.
“It’s time for a new and alternative kind of Internet dating, one that the larger mainstream sites are just not addressing,” states Jennifer Kelton, CEO and Founder. “Dating is the natural process of seeking what we’ve all been hardwired for: companionship, love and to feel safe. After 32 years of dating and at 44, I’ve created a unique place where people can share their experiences, good and bad, by using the technology that is intrinsic to their everyday lives.”
Unlike impersonal sites like Match.com, BadOnlineDates.com provides community members with more sophisticated social tools that they already use in their everyday lives: an iPhone application companion that acts as a virtual wingman, online story and photo sharing, community commentary, social applications like Twitter, entertaining online videos, and an intuitive interface. Combined with human editorial, real live expert advice and a vast selection of like-minded potential matches, BadOnlineDates.com turns bad dating experiences into great ones, transforming dating from what is, at times, a painful, frustrating and isolating series of rejections into a positive online social experience more comparable to the interactions on Facebook, Digg, Twitter and Flickr.
Date Song Pick of the Week: Mark Seymour – Throw Your Arms Around Me
Mark Seymour – Throw Your Arms Around Me
I did not wake up one morning and say “hey I think I’d like a man use my sweater like a towel, write a candid dating book, become a dating expert, the CEO and founder of a social dating site and have three blogs.”
